Confidence is one word that we hear every time when it comes to penis enlargement surgery.
Mostly, it’s because guys have a complete lack of confidence in their penis size and want to find a solution.
This diminished confidence has usually been around for many years for those that think surgery is the best option. Perhaps since your teenage years you’ve felt that you don’t quite measure up? If this applies to you, you’re not alone.
In many cases of course the opposite is true. The penis is actually within normal limits in terms of size. In the end, that really doesn’t matter because if you are not happy with the size of the penis, then the urge to do something about it will always be strong.
In these cases the surgery is purely for aesthetic benefits. Much in the same way that women who have breast implants do so because they just want larger breasts in order to make them feel better in themselves and more confident, although their breasts are of a perfectly normal size.
Fat transfer to increase the penis girth is the most popular procedure to obtain a bigger penis. This allows the penis to become bigger in both the flaccid and erect states. Gains of up to two inches can be achieved which makes the penis much thicker than before. Also, the fat disrupts the tissues longitudinally, therefore even the erect length can appear bigger. If you would like more info on how to increase penis girth, check out our blog.
For others, penis extension surgery is a “must do” because they know that their penis is small.
This can have a devastating effect on a man’s life, changing their daily life much more than we’re led to believe. Personal relationships can get pushed back, or they can even fail altogether. In many cases men will avoid intimacy altogether for fear of ridicule or disappointment from their partners. This leads to a lonely and miserable existence, which is something that no one should have to put up with. We see men who have suffered in this respect for many years and would like to change. Either they couldn’t afford to have the surgery, or they didn’t know it was even possible to increase their penis size.
It’s not just single men who have penis enlargement surgery. We carry out penis enlargement surgery on men who are in solid relationships. You see, in many cases it’s not about the sex, It’s about feeling good in your own skin. We hear this so many times from our patients, so we know it’s a common issue! In almost all cases they tell us that their partner tells them that their penis is “fine the way it is“. Of course, this is cold comfort, and our patients remind their partners that they have been unhappy about their penis size for many years, in fact long before this relationship started.
For the most part, wife’s, girlfriends, and boyfriends are supportive when they understand the devastating effect it is having on their partners lives. Penis enlargement surgery may or may not make the sex better after the surgery, but what is does do is massively boost your confidence and this can directly improve the sexual experience as a result. Even if its not about sex, as your confidence returns, you can get back to those activities that have been put off for years because of embarrassment.
Activities such as going to the gym or playing all kinds of sports are top of the list . It is very sad to see men stopping these activities that they love because of their penis size, but it happens a lot.
Rarely of course, partners can’t understand why the love of their life wants a penis enlargement. They take the matter personally and think that in some way they cannot be satisfying their partner sexually. Some fear that their partners are having an affair. This is a difficult situation and one which, in many cases, does result in a positive outcome if the man has sat his partner down and spoken from the heart about a devastating lack of confidence in his penis size.
At its worst a very small penis, or even a micro penis, can be a massive problem. When this is combined with excess pubic fat it can make sexual intercourse difficult, or even impossible. We see this combination a lot at Moorgate Andrology. In many cases we can perform penis lengthening surgery and thickening surgery together with a pubic liposuction to improve size and performance.
In the past eight years, we have seen a dramatic increase in the number of men seeking penis enlargement surgery. Ever since we were featured on the BBC documentary “The Penis Extension Clinic “ we have seen increases year on year. Most men refer to this documentary as part of the research that they did before contacting us. At the time, it was a ground breaking documentary on the subject and was the catalyst for many men to do something about their penis size, get their confidence back and move forward with fulfilling lives and relationships.