My husband loves his penis. He thinks that I should also be making positive comments about it at as much as possible, and he gets grumpy if I don’t. I have even caught him admiring it in the mirror.
He has asked me on more than one occasion if it’s big enough for me. This is the bit that I find a bit worrying. I have given up telling him that it’s fine because that’s just falling on deaf ears.
I know he wants to ask me if he is the biggest that I have had. It’s the question that is the elephant in the room. But he dare not ask me the question, I think for fear of the answer. I just hope he never does because I am not sure how I would respond. Frankly, if I tell him that he is the biggest penis I have ever had I would be lying, but it’s not the smallest either. That is not going to do his ego any good at all.
I don’t understand why, if he loves his penis so much, he keeps obsessing about his size. His penis looks perfectly normal to me. It does the job if you know what I mean. I can still orgasm, so what more does he want from me?
He is not the sort of guy who goes drinking at the pub with his mates. So I am not sure where this obsession with his penis is coming from. He is not watching porn (as far as I know). Therefore I don’t know what he is trying to compare himself with.
His constant need for reassurance about his penis has become a bit tiring. He gets annoyed if he thinks I am just fobbing him off. He asks me everything about it. Do I think he should get a circumcision? Do I prefer him with or without pubic hair? Can I feel him as much as I used to? (we have been married for 14 years)
As for a circumcision I couldn’t care less, same about his pubic hair. Anyway, he spends as much time grooming his pubic hair as the hair on his head, so no worries there. I cant deny that after three kids things are not quite the same down there, but it’s still okay. He tries really hard in bed bless him because I am sure he knows deep down that after the kids it can never be the same.
I am beginning to wonder if he is trying to tell me something. Maybe it’s not the same for him? I have thought about this. He has never raised the subject but it could be a Pandora’s box in the waiting. He seems to enjoy sex, we maybe have sex less often these days but when we do he seems to enjoy it.
I won’t do anal sex, I have never done, but he has made the odd comment about it over the last few months and I can’t help wondering if he wants to try it because he finds me too “loose” for his benefit.
I just wish he would drop the subject a bit. If he is that worried about his penis size why doesn’t he go to the Doctor or see a penis enlargement clinic?
It’s not as if we don’t have the money. I have had my breasts enlarged (he wasn’t complaining when I had that done) and he even tried Botox once, we are no strangers to a nip and a tuck.
I am sure there must be thousands of women in the same position as me.